I think the hardest part of letting go is that until you know you're in somewhere, you have to keep working Plans B, C, D and so on. Which is fine of course except that I am guessing every USNA candidate falls into the category of kids who do a lot. Between a heavy course load, athletics, volunteering and everything else that made them a viable candidate these kids are spinning wheels at a level most others don't ever experience. And as parents who raised these highly motivated kids, we most likely are spinning right along with them (and any of their siblings). As the acceptance letters roll in from other schools, I note the high cost and people say "he should be applying for every scholarship possible" and I agree, he should. But with 24 hours in a day and 7 days in a week, something has to give. Do they give up the sport they love which made them the athlete that might be recruited? Or take fewer AP classes which makes them less attractive to schools? Or maybe quit the volunteer position they have held all along which developed leadership and commitment in them? Of course the answer is none of those....they just don't sleep, multi-task and keep on spinning. For my son and all of our hopefuls, it will be nice when they can stop spinning those Plans D, E and F and know that A or B is in the bag and then ACTUALLY enjoy what's left of their senior year. Because just when you finish that USNA app, all the nomination apps and then dive into other colleges and ROTC apps and get all that done, it's time for scholarship apps as a "just in case" and the advice of sitting back and enjoying the last of your senior year still doesn't come into play. Hopefully not too much longer for all of us!