I swear...I was about to post the same thing, 2 hours ago. 3q'd to USAFA, USNA, USMA. We keep trying to reinforce the positive. DS has had nothing but positive feedback along the way, but I think it actually hurt. Mention of LOA after winning the "most outstanding candidate" at NASS got his hopes up for early positive news. White male, not a recruited athlete...(but will SLAY in intramural soccer), no quals for any legacy or parental service. We vacillate between what credible sources have said to us about how he presents...and the daunting statistics. Family agreement last week : no more talk of portals, noms, appointments. We are focusing on a spring break cruise. His good friend who has zero connection with any of this is coming with us....a very wholesome soccer friend who will get him out of his head. They are on a workout/ clean eating plan so that they have "ripped abs" on the beach/decks. Refreshingly, basic 18 year olds getting ready to impress girls. That feels good after too much stressing about the next 10-15 yrs of his life. Mantra: He will be fine, He will be fine, He will be FINE....whatever happens.