What I have learned through my admissions journey...

Apollo 8

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As the ball of my admissions journey leaves my court, I would like to share a few things I have learned in the past few months. Maybe this is for the other applicants, parents, or just myself.

I didn’t know the service academies existed until this summer. Reading Charlie Duke’s autobiography, sitting in an empty auditorium at NASA this August, I listened to JFK’s Rice University speech. “We choose to go to the moon in this decade and do the other things, not because they are easy, but because they are hard.” I wanted to do those hard things. So, sitting in that auditorium, I found my congressman’s office email and began crafting a letter.

I have traveled far since then. I have written upwards of fifty essays, emailed countless cadets, been interviewed by senior military officers, and stared at the moon. I have received no admissions decisions, but as my files are slowly making their way to the boards, here are my thoughts:

I have done much more than many seventeen-year-olds I know. Not because of my SAT score, my mile time, or my GPA, but because of the amazing people I have spoken with and the way I have conducted my actions. Awards are shiny, but the words, “hold true to your values, you can change everything,” or the coveted “you are what we need” clause will always hold so much more weight to me (especially when they come from a general). Looking into the eyes of a Naval aviator and saying that I wanted to serve my country will speak more words than a graduation speech ever could.

To the applicants: We aren’t all “perfect specimens” to the academies on paper, but sometimes that isn’t the only thing the military needs. They need leaders, thinkers, and people of endurance. Be that, and you will end up as an effective officer. - From an interviewer.

To officers, cadets, mids, ALOs, and BGOs: You have made this experience unparalleled to any. One can say they will apply to Harvard and receive “good luck”. Say you will apply to an Academy and you will receive help from countless people. I haven’t taken any of it for granted.

To all of us: The anxiety of waiting will begin to rage, and many, myself most likely included, will receive a number of rejections. If there is anything I have learned, it is that my rejection simply means someone more qualified than me is going to become an officer. If I believe I am so worthy to receive an appointment, then the candidate who received that appointment instead must be one heck of a person and will make an incredible officer. Regardless of the outcome, I plan to carry on, commission one way or another, and serve beside some of you on this forum.

Thank you,

a girl who won’t give up
 
Damn girl. You have figured it out. There are so many talented and deserving young men and women who apply every year. And there’s simply not enough seats at this particular table.

The good news is there are multiple pathways to become an officer and serve your country.

Your willingness to respect and appreciate those who may receive an appointment prior to you is classy. Humbling and speaks to supporting a mission that is beyond your personal needs and goals. That is what makes a great leader in my opinion.

As a mom of two, one of whom is a MIDN, and a plebe parent mentor for our parent club, and now affiliate green behind the gills BGO, you have the right attitude.

Personal growth is paramount and this process guarantees that. Props to you.
 
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As the ball of my admissions journey leaves my court, I would like to share a few things I have learned in the past few months. Maybe this is for the other applicants, parents, or just myself.

I didn’t know the service academies existed until this summer. Reading Charlie Duke’s autobiography, sitting in an empty auditorium at NASA this August, I listened to JFK’s Rice University speech. “We choose to go to the moon in this decade and do the other things, not because they are easy, but because they are hard.” I wanted to do those hard things. So, sitting in that auditorium, I found my congressman’s office email and began crafting a letter.

I have traveled far since then. I have written upwards of fifty essays, emailed countless cadets, been interviewed by senior military officers, and stared at the moon. I have received no admissions decisions, but as my files are slowly making their way to the boards, here are my thoughts:

I have done much more than many seventeen-year-olds I know. Not because of my SAT score, my mile time, or my GPA, but because of the amazing people I have spoken with and the way I have conducted my actions. Awards are shiny, but the words, “hold true to your values, you can change everything,” or the coveted “you are what we need” clause will always hold so much more weight to me (especially when they come from a general). Looking into the eyes of a Naval aviator and saying that I wanted to serve my country will speak more words than a graduation speech ever could.

To the applicants: We aren’t all “perfect specimens” to the academies on paper, but sometimes that isn’t the only thing the military needs. They need leaders, thinkers, and people of endurance. Be that, and you will end up as an effective officer. - From an interviewer.

To officers, cadets, mids, ALOs, and BGOs: You have made this experience unparalleled to any. One can say they will apply to Harvard and receive “good luck”. Say you will apply to an Academy and you will receive help from countless people. I haven’t taken any of it for granted.

To all of us: The anxiety of waiting will begin to rage, and many, myself most likely included, will receive a number of rejections. If there is anything I have learned, it is that my rejection simply means someone more qualified than me is going to become an officer. If I believe I am so worthy to receive an appointment, then the candidate who received that appointment instead must be one heck of a person and will make an incredible officer. Regardless of the outcome, I plan to carry on, commission one way or another, and serve beside some of you on this forum.

Thank you,

a girl who won’t give up
To @Apollo 8 and all candidates who choose "to go to the moon", I think of you (around 2:37 mark). All of you are an inspiration.
 
I wouldn’t necessarily conclude those admitted are “more qualified” than you. People perceive qualifications differently. I like to think of it as: those who accepted me really wanted me. That may be telling me something (such as, this pace or job will be a good fit for me). As someone who’s experienced my fair share of acceptances and rejections, I’ve found this to be true more often than not.
 
I am a firm believer, that no matter the outcome, a student is better for having gone through a SA application process. The growth (which you alluded to) will serve you well wherever you end up.

Every year there are amazingly qualified people not appointed. Some go on to receive an appointment as a re-applicant. Which also shows grit and determination. Just because you weren’t appointed this cycle, doesn’t mean you were less qualified. The process doesn’t select the ‘top xxx qualified students in the nation’. So don‘t think you are necessarily less qualified (could be the case, may not be).

You expressed great insight into your journey….and you are right. You are ahead of your peers as an applicant to xxx for having gone though it. Good luck to you, wherever you end up!
 
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As the ball of my admissions journey leaves my court, I would like to share a few things I have learned in the past few months. Maybe this is for the other applicants, parents, or just myself.

I didn’t know the service academies existed until this summer. Reading Charlie Duke’s autobiography, sitting in an empty auditorium at NASA this August, I listened to JFK’s Rice University speech. “We choose to go to the moon in this decade and do the other things, not because they are easy, but because they are hard.” I wanted to do those hard things. So, sitting in that auditorium, I found my congressman’s office email and began crafting a letter.

I have traveled far since then. I have written upwards of fifty essays, emailed countless cadets, been interviewed by senior military officers, and stared at the moon. I have received no admissions decisions, but as my files are slowly making their way to the boards, here are my thoughts:

I have done much more than many seventeen-year-olds I know. Not because of my SAT score, my mile time, or my GPA, but because of the amazing people I have spoken with and the way I have conducted my actions. Awards are shiny, but the words, “hold true to your values, you can change everything,” or the coveted “you are what we need” clause will always hold so much more weight to me (especially when they come from a general). Looking into the eyes of a Naval aviator and saying that I wanted to serve my country will speak more words than a graduation speech ever could.

To the applicants: We aren’t all “perfect specimens” to the academies on paper, but sometimes that isn’t the only thing the military needs. They need leaders, thinkers, and people of endurance. Be that, and you will end up as an effective officer. - From an interviewer.

To officers, cadets, mids, ALOs, and BGOs: You have made this experience unparalleled to any. One can say they will apply to Harvard and receive “good luck”. Say you will apply to an Academy and you will receive help from countless people. I haven’t taken any of it for granted.

To all of us: The anxiety of waiting will begin to rage, and many, myself most likely included, will receive a number of rejections. If there is anything I have learned, it is that my rejection simply means someone more qualified than me is going to become an officer. If I believe I am so worthy to receive an appointment, then the candidate who received that appointment instead must be one heck of a person and will make an incredible officer. Regardless of the outcome, I plan to carry on, commission one way or another, and serve beside some of you on this forum.

Thank you,

a girl who won’t give up
I think you are ready to use, after this articulate, mature and insightful post:

“A WOMAN who won’t give up.”

You are ready to leave “girl” behind.
 
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