Our daughter told few that she had even applied to USNA. Even after she got her appointment, she didn't say anything to other than immediate family. So you can imagine their surprise...
One of her HS coaches (after she had gotten her appointment) told her that she wouldn't ever amount to much. He wasn't the one that wrote her letter of recommendation.
Others commented on her size and that for that reason she wouldn't make it, failing to take into consideration her high school sports (ice hockey and rugby). They wondered about the "low" standards of the USNA. Probably should explain that she had to get a waiver because she was that underweight.
I wish I could have been a fly on the wall when she showed up wearing a USNA T-shirt for college selection day at her high school. That was only matched by the announcement at her graduation. Her school is known for service and part of their graduation ceremony honors those that have chosen the military. They announced those young men that had enlisted in USMC (3), followed by the young men that were going AF ROTC (2) and then they announced her appointment. There was a collective gasp and then a lot of whispers.
Then there are her grandparents. One served in the Korean War in the Army and the other in the Vietnam War. Both proudly announce where she attends, and the first questions go back to how Navy is doing in football.