rlrmilitarymom
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I understand where you are coming from, and I agree that the person who is not 100% committed is not going to get my 5% recommendation. Until not long ago, I viewed any lack of interest and motivation as a deal killer, but I really don't think that is the message coming from Admissions . When I am on this Forum, I try to reflect the what I hear and see coming from Admissions, not my personal beliefs on how things should be.
Thanks for your candid responses OLD NAVY BGO. Like most retired Naval Officers and BGO's you have very strong opinions on issues and I am thankful my husband was able to share his, on this respectful forum.
Now, Im speaking as a mom with no military experience, other than a spouse of a military member and a mom, to a son who will be attending an academy this summer. We set our son down long ago and again, very recently, and allowed him to express fears, anxieties, concerns etc. Afterwards we explained in no un-certain terms, if he ever changed his 100% commitment or changed his mind all together, to let us know and we would respect his decision. We let him know, that changing your commitments before your service begins is nothing to be ashamed of. However, we believe that to take this honor and not be 100% committed short changes themselves and others.
Like so many, our son is preparing to serve the finest military in the world and we are proud beyond belief. But if he changes his mind, we will be behind him 100% and respect the decision he makes. I believe that each and every candidate who has accepted an appointment should look in the mirror and ask the question, is this what I (me, not mom & dad, not my peers) really want and am I committed to giving 100% to becoming the best military officer I can be. If the answer is no to either of those questions, then serving this nation as a military officer is probably not the path for you. Either way, in closing, I encourage any candidate who might be experiencing cold feet to pray and seek Gods will for your life. God bless OUR TROOPS this Memorial Day Weekend~