My son is not having a good experience there. He told his roommate he wanted to dropout and other students know and they keep telling him to stay. So confused.
Sorry to hear this.
Much depends on how deeply he wants to go to USNA and become a commissioned officer in the Navy or Marine Corps. If that’s what he wants, he guts it out, makes the grades he needs, manages his own mood, stays sat in military and physical performance, ignores all the background noise and drama and focuses on joining the plebe class next I-Day.
The Naval Academy believed in him enough to demonstrate their desire to have him attend by offering him NAPS to polish up what they felt necessary to future success at USNA. This experience should also clarify his desire to become an officer by this path.
At the SAs, there are also those who indulge in drama, misbehave, fail at various things. The system expects a certain amount of attrition, both voluntary and involuntary.
NAPS is not the same as USNA. USNA is not the same as the Fleet or Corps, at any rank. ALL have their times of absolute non-enjoyment, inanity and frustration. In other words, sometimes it sucks.
NAPSters arrive at USNA having developed maturity by time away from home, familiarity with Navy routine and terminology, a good academic foundation and a set of friends. These advantages help NAPSters have a good track record of success at USNA.
The only thing your son has to worry about is himself and the things he can control. If he wants to go to USNA, all the power is in his hands.