BBBRRRTT. I'm not going to chastise you for your initial reply. Enough people already expressed that feeling. And navyhoops accurately explained the facts and your ignorance on the subject. And no, ignorance is not a negative connotation. It simply means you don't know. And that's fine. I don't know everything either. I am ignorant of certain things. Which leads into my main points I want to make in this thread.
POINT 1: EVERY, and I mean EVERY appointee who gets accepted to the academies and stands on those footsteps on day-1; is IGNORANT of the academy and what they got themselves into. Some appointees may have an easier time adapting than others; e.g. Brats and Team Jocks. But even the Brats who many have lived their whole live in and around the military, are also ignorant of what they got themselves into. You don't know the academy until you're actually there. All the alumni, grads, and current students can answer all the questions you may have about the academies; but you'll still be ignorant of what you got yourself into until you're actually there.
POINT 2: A person who drops out of the academy, does not lock out that slot for the next 4 years. Each senator/representative is allowed 5 of their nominees at the academy at the same time. (Appointments charged to them). If an individual becomes unqualified, quits, or gets kicked out, the senator/representative can appoint more than one person the next year. There are quite a few senators/representatives who have had 2 slates of nominees they put up because they had open slots because of people who quit, became disqualified, or were kicked out.
POINT 3: This is the most important point. The applicant who received an appointment to the academy, EARNED IT!!! The vast majority busted their a$$ to get that appointment. They are the ones who for 4, 8, 12 years busted their butt to get stellar grades. Gave hundreds of volunteer hours to their community and less fortunate. They are the ones who were involved in team activities, leadership positions, etc. They are the ones who gave up a more leisurely social life to make themselves competitive to universities and the academies. Not their parents. Not their teachers. Not their counselors. BUT THEM!!!! They EARNED THIS APPOINTMENT. And as such, they have every right in the world, to do with that appointment, ANYTHING they WANT TO with it. If they don't want to show up on I-Day; THEY EARNED THAT RIGHT. If they feel during or after Basic Training, that the military environment and methods aren't for them, and they want to leave; THEY EARNED THAT RIGHT. If during the academic year; whether it's the first semester or 4th semester; that the academics and environment for academics isn't for them, and they want to leave, then "THEY EARNED THAT RIGHT". They don't owe you, me, their parent, or ANY of the other applicants who didn't receive an appointment ANYTHING!!! This is THEIR APPOINTMENT. They have every right to do with it whatever they want. THEY EARNED THAT RIGHT!!!
And as navyhoops accurately pointed out, the academies understand this and take this all into consideration when giving appointment. For what it's worth. during the time of the academy classes of 2008 - 2012, the academy would OFFER approximately 1700 appointments. Because they KNEW that 500 people would turn down the appointment. YES, approximately 30% offers would be turned down. The appointment pool isn't made up entirely of kids who want the academies as their #1 school. We talk about BACK UP SCHOOL when you apply. Many times, the academies are an applicant's backup, 2nd choice, Plan-B school. Also, of the 1200 +/- appointees that do make it to the academy, the academy knows FOR A FACT; that approximately 200 of them are going to quit or get kicked out before their 4 years is over. The average graduation class is around 1000 cadets.
And while you're talking about that "Waitlisted" applicant who would have REALLY APPRECIATED having that slot; let me NOT TELL YOU about ALL of the appointees that I, other ALO's, and other people on this forum know, who (Always wanted the academy my whole life) (Was in JrROTC, Scout, CAP, got the billy mitchell, eagle scout etc.) (Was the most gung ho applicant during their senior year of high school and got an EARLY APPOINTMENT to the academy)..............etc........... And how many of these "TOP-10%" appointees were ignorant, had no idea what they were getting into, and QUIT in the first year. So even that WAITLISTED person, had the academy been able to see the future on the original poster of this thread, and chose the waitlisted person instead......... there is no guarantee that the waitlisted person wouldn't have quit in the first semester either.
So for ALL of you who think it's WRONG for a person to quit the academy, let me just say one final thing. "THEY EARNED THAT RIGHT"!!! Not you, or their parents, or their teachers, etc. THEY DID!!! They are the ones that put in the time and effort to become competitive and get selected. They have every right to change their mind. THEY EARNED THAT RIGHT!!!