Is everyone sending mail? You really should be mailing something everyday. You want your kids to have mail during mail call. The more the better. Keep it short, they're very tired and don't have alot of time. But if they know people at home are thinking about them, it helps. Be encouraging, be supportive, tell them to take it one day at a time. Remember white envelopes, patriotic stamps, no stickers, no perfume, no lipstick prints, no pictures in envelopes, no anything to call attention to them.