Similar thoughts as
@Capt MJ!!
As a mom, I would HIGHLY recommend a chat about long term goals. Yes, a D1 sport is special during your college years. But at expense (potentially) of his future dreams? If he leaves, so does the sport.
If he were mine, I would highly recommend taking a year off from his sport. It’s easy to say that it’s “test taking”. Perhaps it is. But I’m pretty confident, that freeing up the stress/time commitment/mental brain drain/travel/workouts/warmup and cool downs/team meetings and events would at least not make things worse for him.
Kuddos to him for not wanting to let his team and coach down. The reality is, he won’t. Someone will fill his shoes.
I do speak from experience…my own Mid decided to leave his sport that he was recruited for. I was crushed, tbh. Part of it was my letting go of being the bleacher mom I had been for the last umpteen years. But I promise that fads. And the pride that comes with their joy and successes in other ways instantly takes away the sting. For mom and son.
I would counsel to try giving up the sport, and sticking it out until semester break. My Mid was able to integrate even more with his company after leaving his sport. And there are lots of opportunities for peer academic support, that may click better with him, if he has the time. My own 3/C peer tutors. Formally and informally. And connects well with his buddies.
Maybe framing the option as ‘taking a break from his sport’, vs quitting, would also be helpful. He does still have options. But I sure wouldn’t give up a career as a future Marine Officer, for a couple years playing XXX. The financials of it all, at the very least, would say to give this route a try before throwing in the towel.