Now that our last NROTC board has wrapped up, I wanted to just highlight a couple things that I would put in the lessons learned category.
Once the final results were released, with the final board being the MSI selectees, I received two somewhat panicked emails from parents of applicants who were selected for MSI, but for whatever reason, never actually applied to the HBC.
I honestly was taken aback, but if it needs to be said, let me say it now. At no point does the NROTC organization apply to a university on behalf of your DS/DD. For one thing, we can't! It isn't legal. But, honestly, if a person is not motivated to even apply to the university, I question their general motivation for NROTC. Nevertheless, we called over to the Provost, begged forgiveness, and it is being taken care of.
So, lesson learned, if an applicant clicks the box stating they are interested in an MSI opportunity, then an HBC or HHE needs to be in the list of colleges......and YES, you have to actually apply to it. For most colleges I know of in the Capitol Region, if you go to that university, and they list an enrollment or application fee on the invoice, the NROTC scholarship will cover that.
Last one, (for now), I had two sets of parents stop by with their children last week over the easter break. Both stated their son and daughters wanted to ask questions about the program. In both cases, mom and mom&dad were well prepared with a myriad of questions, concerns, ideas, thoughts, etc. In neither case did the DS or DD ask a single question. And in one case, DS actually dozed off during the discussion
In the spirit of transparency, if either of these two come before me for an officer interview, there will be questions, and neither mom nor dad will be there to answer. And I completely understand that there are children a bit more introverted than others, and it can be intimidating walking into a military-themed officer with all sorts of swag adorning the walls. For future applicants, I am here to tell you that anytime you are within sight or hearing of military officers, you should assume you are being "assessed". I hope that doesn't sound harsh, but this is one of those......."someone needed to say it" moments.