Tragic Death of Plebe Mom Today šŸ˜”

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All this has been on the local news here today, and the name has been released. What should have been a joyous time has been a heart-breaking blow to one plebeā€™s family.

Most of Annapolis is a ā€œperfectly fineā€ city. As with all cities, though, there are bad actors and horrible consequences to violence.

I think the family was at The Graduate Hotel on West St., just enjoying a late summer evening outside.
 
Today was annoying as I looked on FB and saw all the 2025s celebrating their Iday moments. I'm a 2024 parent. I was green with envy. And then I saw this. Holy crud - that straightened me right out. I am a mess right now for the plebe, for the family, and for the class of 2025. I am also embarrassed that I felt so envious today. I will pray for this family and this plebe. This should NEVER happen.
 
Iā€™m also heartbroken. Thatā€™s where we stayed this time of year dropping off our ā€˜22. We sat on that patio. Enjoying the sights and sounds of the city, people watching, proud parents. Same as this family.

I simply cannot imagine. I pray for peace and swift justice.
 
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Abide with me ā€” Henry Francis Lyte

Abide with me; fast falls the eventide;
The darkness deepens; Lord with me abide.
When other helpers fail and comforts flee,
Help of the helpless, O abide with me.

Swift to its close ebbs out life's little day;
Earth's joys grow dim; its glories pass away;
Change and decay in all around I see;
O Thou who changest not, abide with me.

Not a brief glance I beg, a passing word,
But as Thou dwell'st with Thy disciples, Lord,
Familiar, condescending, patient, free.
Come not to sojourn, but abide with me.

Come not in terror, as the King of kings,
But kind and good, with healing in Thy wings;
Tears for all woes, a heart for every plea.
Come, Friend of sinners, thus abide with me.

Thou on my head in early youth didst smile,
And though rebellious and perverse meanwhile,
Thou hast not left me, oft as I left Thee.
On to the close, O Lord, abide with me.

I need Thy presence every passing hour.
What but Thy grace can foil the tempter's power?
Who, like Thyself, my guide and stay can be?
Through cloud and sunshine, Lord, abide with me.

I fear no foe, with Thee at hand to bless;
Ills have no weight, and tears no bitterness.
Where is death's sting? Where, grave, thy victory?
I triumph still, if Thou abide with me.

Hold Thou Thy cross before my closing eyes;
Shine through the gloom and point me to the skies.
Heaven's morning breaks, and earth's vain shadows flee;
In life, in death, O Lord, abide with me.
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I said ā€œplebe mom.ā€ Since this happened very early this AM, I assume the son had not checked in yet, unless he came in with NAPSters or other early reports. A horrible, sad mess no matter his status.
 
I said ā€œplebe mom.ā€ Since this happened very early this AM, I assume the son had not checked in yet, unless he came in with NAPSters or other early reports. A horrible, sad mess no matter his status.
an article I saw this morning that a fellow mid mom and dear friend sent me stated he was a NAPS incoming plebe. I struggle with how tragic this is. I know he will have unending support with his USNA and NAPS family. And his family will have our support, whatever comfort that may be.
 
My heart is breaking for this young man, his loved ones, and his mom who will never have the opportunity to see her son experience this day. An incredibly sad and unimaginable tragedy. I know USNA, his detailers, fellow NAPS buddies, and new classmates will provide all of the support they can. My thoughts are with them all.
 
Rest assured there will be a chaplain assigned to the plebe and his family. If he is a sports recruit, the coaches and team members in the area will rally around.

I tear up thinking if itā€™s going to be one of those stories where the plebe decides to stay because thatā€™s what his mom would have wantedā€¦.
 
Last week, a firstie found dead while on leave ā€” less than a year from graduating and commissioning. Today, a P2Bā€™s mother senselessly killed ā€” just before her son is to be sworn in as a midshipman.

I need the reminder as much as anyone else: Whenever you part from a loved one, it may be the last time you see them alive. Donā€™t miss the chance to tell them you love them.
 
Rest assured there will be a chaplain assigned to the plebe and his family. If he is a sports recruit, the coaches and team members in the area will rally around.

I tear up thinking if itā€™s going to be one of those stories where the plebe decides to stay because thatā€™s what his mom would have wantedā€¦.
The first article mentioned a sport. It brings me comfort to think that he has teammates beyond fellow midshipmen. I appreciate this forum and the posters in times like these more than I normally do.
 
A go fund me has been created. Iā€™ll link it here for anyone who wants to contribute, as official word has been released from USNA:


Itā€™s been a tough few weeks for Navy Football šŸ„ŗ
 
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Rest assured there will be a chaplain assigned to the plebe and his family. If he is a sports recruit, the coaches and team members in the area will rally around.

I tear up thinking if itā€™s going to be one of those stories where the plebe decides to stay because thatā€™s what his mom would have wantedā€¦.
In addition to praying for the plebe and his family, I'm also praying that this is the case as well.
 
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