To reiterate what
@justdoit19 mentioned above...last cycle there was no chat that I was aware of, or our DS was aware of. DS just sent his file in, updated as needed and maybe emailed admissions if he had a critical issue or question. There wasn't an option to ask the status of your application and expect a detailed answer.
There is nobody at USNA that is dragging this out to stress out applicants or parents. NOBODY. During a pandemic, while doing their jobs, while sometimes working remotely, while staff who are ACTIVE DUTY are transferred and deployed, while a replacement dives into the pool to replace their predecessor, while dealing with the nightmare of a new IT platform-- they are tending to each and every application with utmost care. Telling qualified, stellar applicants 'not this year' is not fun. Nobody enjoys that. Heck, many of them may have gone through the same process you are going through as applicants themselves many moons ago.
Unless you have an issue that cannot be resolved by waiting, any email or call or long chat session is only taking them away from the massive job of putting this jigsaw puzzle together. And that has to be done by the rules put in place by Congress.
Yes, they have missed their target date and the goalpost has moved. That's not going to stop if you get in. DS and all mids have had too many goalposts to name moved. It happens daily.
I appreciate the frustration, I do. And yes, it is late to not have an answer. But you are all competitive enough to not have received a TWE at this point. Let that sink in. You are still in the bottom of the 9th inning and haven't been tossed out of the game yet. If the news comes and it is a disappointment, knock your Plan B out and nail it. And, if you so choose, navigate the application process all over again. You are not alone. Less than approximately 50% of those with nominations will get the BFE. Many stellar, amazing kids will be turned down, there simply are not enough seats at the table for all of the quality kids that apply.
As hard as it is, applicants, step away from the portals. If they need to reach you, a phone will ring, an email will be sent. You put the best application in, it is now out of your hands (barring requests for documents or remedials etc). Go for a run, spend time with family and friends. No matter the outcome of this, your life is likely going to be changing dramatically in the coming months as you embark on whatever new journey your Plan A or A- or B take you.