Best wishes to y'alls darlins' as they transition to the next step. All will go to another training command. I know. I know. They are coming from the prestige of the USNA. That however will not mean squat to the receiving command. The payback to the taxpayer will begin when they step on deck of their first destroyer or squadron. Or submarine. Or FMF unit. The payoff to the Navy or Marine Corps however happens when your sons and daughters stand in front of their division or platoon for the first time.
If, on that first meeting, that first quarters or formation, they aren't scared snotless hoping to make a good first impression, then the four years spent at the Academy meant nothing. I'm betting the new officers who belong to the parents I know on this forum will be nervous but confident, and make a good first impression on the 19 year old lance corporal or seaman they now call their people.
Things happen for a reason. Everybody needs a leader. My motto used to be, "I go where I'm led, I lead where I go."
Regardless of where we want to be, we are where we end up and must make the best of it. The old adage, "You get out of it what you put into it" has always been true.