crescentwrench16
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I'm a '25 candidate to USNA, and I've been watching these forums for a few months now. One of the lessons I've seen being drilled into everyone's heads is that the application process for service academies should be driven by the candidate, not the parents, siblings, etc. But looking at many of the threads, especially the appointment lists, it seems that there is a significant number of parents active on these forums on their child's behalf. This may not be a bad thing, but I was shocked by how many appointments were reported as "DS/DD". It seems to hover at just around 50% of them. This puzzles me, as I would have assumed it would be almost exclusively reported by the candidates themselves. After all, isn't it the candidate that should be the one to search these forums for answers, or at least post their own appointments (I know I've done my fair share of digging here). While I understand that there are many candidates who likely don't feel like explaining the entire convoluted application process to their parents (myself included, not that I don't love my parents, though), thus sending the parents searching these forums for some answers to the cryptic process and vocabulary, it seems that many ask questions and post on behalf of their child. This is just my observation. Does anybody have any thoughts on this, or has anybody seen a similar trend?