@Banshee Mom . First, I feel ya'. I will never forget my first grocery shopping after leaving DS on the curb at our local airport, headed for I Day solo (Covid, 2020).
I walked into Walmart, was doing my usual routine, got to the freezer section, and dropped a box of 'uncrustables' into the cart (ooh, gross, I know but DS loved them). I took two steps and it hit me like a truck. He wasn't home, he wouldn't be home for 168 days, and I wasn't responsible for feeding him now. I couldn't feed him now, outside of leave trips home. I started ugly crying. Had to leave the cart and go sit in the car with the AC on. Just sobbed.
He ended up with dual long bone stress fractures in both legs, crutches for 8 weeks, and visits to ortho eating up time plebes don't have. He ended up ok. He was miserable going through it, but came out of it and thrived. Is still thriving and coming home tomorrow. I am busy planning food I get to cook for him while he is home. Full circle moment here.
Your DD will be okay, and your visit with her PPW will be all the more special and needed by all of you. PM me if you need to vent. And, if you haven't yet, try to locate your local parent club and get a member of an upper class midshipmen as a mentor, and a plebe parent as a battle buddy.