Minuteman03
missiles is my first choice
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- Dec 9, 2022
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Greeting to all of you great and wise graduates, and storied peoples.
I currently attend USAFA. I have amazing grades, I am in the Honors Program, and I have a great thing going.
On Christmas, I received a gift which ultimately put me in a weird state of mind. It was the flag flown on my class year's acceptance day. I am grateful yes, but there is this lingering guilt that I should not possess such a flag. For about a month now I have been thinking of leaving, hence when I received this gift, I did not know how to feel. My complication is not how I should feel about the flag, rather -- how to I process these thoughts and feelings about leaving?
Let me offer some background.
If I am honest, a large reason I chose to attend the Academy was the financials. I would feel bad asking my parents to cough up extreme amounts of money to attend a school, so when I was looking at the Academies, I ultimately found myself draw to the potential of graduating debt free. I think I ultimately chose USAFA for the looks, I had my heart set on attending a SA from the beginning of my college application process in HS because I thought it would mean something if I were to attend there; my friends, teachers, parents would feel proud and accomplished that they pushed me to attend such an institution. Another part of me thinks there was something I needed to prove, but looking back, I am not sure I really did have anything to prove. Basic training was a blur; it sucks to be yelled at and be constantly told you are wrong but the stress kicked after the first few days, and I wasn't nearly thrilled with the challenge. Coming back home during the break, my family were all so proud of me, and I was proud of what I have done, but there has been a part of me with me foot suck out the door. Moreso, what do they actually have to be proud of? That I attend class in camouflage and not a hoodie and shorts? I digress. I am not sure if I really ever fully stepped into the Academy. I don't feel an anxiousness for Recognition, Ring Dance, Job Drops, etc... all of these traditional major milestones in the Academy life, I am neutral to. I purely just find the Academy to be school. I really cannot say I have ever been through and through military is my passion. I have always been supportive, and patriotic, which I why I thought I would be happy here, but I find myself at best content. Lastly, I have no clue what I want to do with my life, which I know, I know, nobody really does at my age; but hear me out: in all of the theoretical timelines and scenarios I can playout in my mind, the ones where I graduate from the Academy seem to be the least enjoyable, most regrettable hypotheticals. Then again they are hypotheticals.
Now that you know a little about me, please use your personal life experiences and wisdom to answer this question carefully.
Financials aside, do you think it is genuinely worth graduating from the Academy and incurring the time commitment after?
Please also consider suggestions for paths to take, things to think about, etc.
Greatly appreciated.
-MM03
I currently attend USAFA. I have amazing grades, I am in the Honors Program, and I have a great thing going.
On Christmas, I received a gift which ultimately put me in a weird state of mind. It was the flag flown on my class year's acceptance day. I am grateful yes, but there is this lingering guilt that I should not possess such a flag. For about a month now I have been thinking of leaving, hence when I received this gift, I did not know how to feel. My complication is not how I should feel about the flag, rather -- how to I process these thoughts and feelings about leaving?
Let me offer some background.
If I am honest, a large reason I chose to attend the Academy was the financials. I would feel bad asking my parents to cough up extreme amounts of money to attend a school, so when I was looking at the Academies, I ultimately found myself draw to the potential of graduating debt free. I think I ultimately chose USAFA for the looks, I had my heart set on attending a SA from the beginning of my college application process in HS because I thought it would mean something if I were to attend there; my friends, teachers, parents would feel proud and accomplished that they pushed me to attend such an institution. Another part of me thinks there was something I needed to prove, but looking back, I am not sure I really did have anything to prove. Basic training was a blur; it sucks to be yelled at and be constantly told you are wrong but the stress kicked after the first few days, and I wasn't nearly thrilled with the challenge. Coming back home during the break, my family were all so proud of me, and I was proud of what I have done, but there has been a part of me with me foot suck out the door. Moreso, what do they actually have to be proud of? That I attend class in camouflage and not a hoodie and shorts? I digress. I am not sure if I really ever fully stepped into the Academy. I don't feel an anxiousness for Recognition, Ring Dance, Job Drops, etc... all of these traditional major milestones in the Academy life, I am neutral to. I purely just find the Academy to be school. I really cannot say I have ever been through and through military is my passion. I have always been supportive, and patriotic, which I why I thought I would be happy here, but I find myself at best content. Lastly, I have no clue what I want to do with my life, which I know, I know, nobody really does at my age; but hear me out: in all of the theoretical timelines and scenarios I can playout in my mind, the ones where I graduate from the Academy seem to be the least enjoyable, most regrettable hypotheticals. Then again they are hypotheticals.
Now that you know a little about me, please use your personal life experiences and wisdom to answer this question carefully.
Financials aside, do you think it is genuinely worth graduating from the Academy and incurring the time commitment after?
Please also consider suggestions for paths to take, things to think about, etc.
Greatly appreciated.
-MM03