Sorry, I've been gone and this post was awhile ago. Yet, I wanted to respond.
Good point most high school kids have not been to Ranger School or in combat. It is not easy to find "real" leadership positions. The seemingly empty ones still help us develop and are better than none. I have been able to lead as a pool manager for two years and develop lifeguards and train asst managers to become managers to keep the people at our pool safe.No sleep and food deprivation like Ranger school, but it has helped and I've learned alot.
I am not a leader on my wrestling team because I am a good wrestler. I'm not the best on my team by far. But, I try as captain to encourage my team members to work harder, work extra, get better, make better grades, drink less beer, be good citizens, pick up our trash after tournaments at other schools gyms and work together. Many wrestlers,at least on our team, come from less than stellar homes. This is their one chance to rise above and have something good in their life. I want that to happen for them, our team , and our school. Thanks for listening to me rant and defend myself a little. I don't know if this even has anything to do with this thread anymore.