Signing off the USNA board after not receiving an appointment, and grateful to many on this forum. Thank you to everyone who posted - we didn't log in a lot, but we read the boards often. As a result, we've recommended them to many people.
At this point we are very reflective and feel like it's time to give back a little. Below are a few things we learned along the way. Everyone will have a different experience and opinion, so however you feel about these, they were our experience and we hope it helps future applicants:
BOARDS
1. The long term participants on this forum know what they are talking about. Listen to them!
2. In addition, there are several people on the boards who give strong primary information. Three that comes to mind are @MullenLE (for DoDMERB), @AFROTCAdmissions (obviously not USNA, but still worth listing), @MOC5th (although these posts are a little older)
3. Post respectfully. If you are kind, even the more abrasive and strong personalities on this board will be kind in return. That said, you should not be made to feel bad for asking certain questions, or for being honest about how you are coping/feeling/etc. through a very stressful process. If needed, learn when to log off and take a break from the boards, which we did several times.
WAIVERS
4. Waivers: We did not receive an appointment from USNA after being approved for a medical waiver (so this does happen!) We knew the waiver was no guarantee, but it still added a layer of disappointment.
5. That said, when it comes to waivers, be proactive with seeing specialists and providing information. Although not as fast as USNA, that proactive approach also expedited things for the ROTC branches.
NOMINATIONS
6. The number of nominations does not make you look stronger to admissions. We had three nominations: both senators and MOC in a very competitive state, but no Principle. One Senator designated a Principle and it was not us.
7. We know there were several recruited LOA Athletes and NAPS candidates on our other two slates and we believe this affected us a great deal. The MOC/Senate announcements for appointments in our state and district so far include only recruited athletes and 2020 NAPS graduates, and the one Principle mentioned above (who was not LOA or a recruited athlete.)
Note: There will be members on this board who will disagree with this and we respect their opinion. We are not at all suggesting it's impossible. That is, we understand that admissions can find nominations for LOA/NAPS candidates elsewhere. The question remains: why would admissions bend over backwards to try to find LOA/NAPS candidates other nominations when that puzzle piece can be so easily filled on their own slate with no designated Principle? We also understand the national pool, which is very small all things considered, and we obviously didn't hit that threshold. In the end, we believe for us it boiled down to geography and math: if there were no LOA athletes or NAPS candidates on our slates, we would have had a better shot.
GENERAL
8. Be humble. Please don't announce/list your credentials on this board unless you are asking about one specific thing. Or course you should be very proud of your accomplishments, but most of the candidates on this board are as strong as you, and often decisions come down to things you can't control.
9. We attended NASS and kept in touch after. Everyone in our squad completed applications, and everyone received at least one nomination. Only one was offered an appointment.
10. Being "too strong" for NAPS is a real thing, and something that we were told several times, and from different people. Getting waitlisted from USNA, but too strong for NAPS, was more disappointing than we had anticipated.
11. Stay Anonymous. We identified two people on this forum with quick google searches after they disclosed their Congressional district. With internet accolades for nominations, sports, and other accomplishments, it's not hard.
12. Don't get political. Most everyone adheres to this, but as soon as someone (even remotely) infers political affiliations, we immediately tuned them out and lost all interest in anything they had to say.
Final thoughts:
As many people have said, but we think it's important to emphasize: make sure you keep an open mind and give yourself the chance to love your plan B, C, D as much as you love USNA. We had 3 nominations, a medical waiver, and are considered under-represented at USNA. We had all of the academic and leadership qualities of everyone on this board, and not receiving an appointment was "shocking" to our BGO (LOL - fwiw, we were not shocked as we understood the level of competition from the start. But we still appreciated the enthusiasm of our BGO, and their disappointment for us. It's nice to have someone cheering you on.) But thankfully we are very happy with our plan B, which includes an NROTC scholarship at our top-choice civilian college, so in the end things worked out.
Thanks for letting us share a glimpse into our experience and some advice. I hope it somehow helps you in your journey. And thanks to all of the board members who actively post and helped us with our own journey. We wish everyone the very best.
Stay positive!
At this point we are very reflective and feel like it's time to give back a little. Below are a few things we learned along the way. Everyone will have a different experience and opinion, so however you feel about these, they were our experience and we hope it helps future applicants:
BOARDS
1. The long term participants on this forum know what they are talking about. Listen to them!
2. In addition, there are several people on the boards who give strong primary information. Three that comes to mind are @MullenLE (for DoDMERB), @AFROTCAdmissions (obviously not USNA, but still worth listing), @MOC5th (although these posts are a little older)
3. Post respectfully. If you are kind, even the more abrasive and strong personalities on this board will be kind in return. That said, you should not be made to feel bad for asking certain questions, or for being honest about how you are coping/feeling/etc. through a very stressful process. If needed, learn when to log off and take a break from the boards, which we did several times.
WAIVERS
4. Waivers: We did not receive an appointment from USNA after being approved for a medical waiver (so this does happen!) We knew the waiver was no guarantee, but it still added a layer of disappointment.
5. That said, when it comes to waivers, be proactive with seeing specialists and providing information. Although not as fast as USNA, that proactive approach also expedited things for the ROTC branches.
NOMINATIONS
6. The number of nominations does not make you look stronger to admissions. We had three nominations: both senators and MOC in a very competitive state, but no Principle. One Senator designated a Principle and it was not us.
7. We know there were several recruited LOA Athletes and NAPS candidates on our other two slates and we believe this affected us a great deal. The MOC/Senate announcements for appointments in our state and district so far include only recruited athletes and 2020 NAPS graduates, and the one Principle mentioned above (who was not LOA or a recruited athlete.)
Note: There will be members on this board who will disagree with this and we respect their opinion. We are not at all suggesting it's impossible. That is, we understand that admissions can find nominations for LOA/NAPS candidates elsewhere. The question remains: why would admissions bend over backwards to try to find LOA/NAPS candidates other nominations when that puzzle piece can be so easily filled on their own slate with no designated Principle? We also understand the national pool, which is very small all things considered, and we obviously didn't hit that threshold. In the end, we believe for us it boiled down to geography and math: if there were no LOA athletes or NAPS candidates on our slates, we would have had a better shot.
GENERAL
8. Be humble. Please don't announce/list your credentials on this board unless you are asking about one specific thing. Or course you should be very proud of your accomplishments, but most of the candidates on this board are as strong as you, and often decisions come down to things you can't control.
9. We attended NASS and kept in touch after. Everyone in our squad completed applications, and everyone received at least one nomination. Only one was offered an appointment.
10. Being "too strong" for NAPS is a real thing, and something that we were told several times, and from different people. Getting waitlisted from USNA, but too strong for NAPS, was more disappointing than we had anticipated.
11. Stay Anonymous. We identified two people on this forum with quick google searches after they disclosed their Congressional district. With internet accolades for nominations, sports, and other accomplishments, it's not hard.
12. Don't get political. Most everyone adheres to this, but as soon as someone (even remotely) infers political affiliations, we immediately tuned them out and lost all interest in anything they had to say.
Final thoughts:
As many people have said, but we think it's important to emphasize: make sure you keep an open mind and give yourself the chance to love your plan B, C, D as much as you love USNA. We had 3 nominations, a medical waiver, and are considered under-represented at USNA. We had all of the academic and leadership qualities of everyone on this board, and not receiving an appointment was "shocking" to our BGO (LOL - fwiw, we were not shocked as we understood the level of competition from the start. But we still appreciated the enthusiasm of our BGO, and their disappointment for us. It's nice to have someone cheering you on.) But thankfully we are very happy with our plan B, which includes an NROTC scholarship at our top-choice civilian college, so in the end things worked out.
Thanks for letting us share a glimpse into our experience and some advice. I hope it somehow helps you in your journey. And thanks to all of the board members who actively post and helped us with our own journey. We wish everyone the very best.
Stay positive!