My main thing about SMC’s over regular college ROTC is the connections that you can make early on
My DS attended a scholars program as an AFROTC cadet at a traditional college. I just can't bite off on that. I believe your connections are what you make of the opportunities available to you as a cadet. My DS joined a military fraternity, he attended GMC nights, and whatever functions that he thought might be fun.
FFWD to 2 yrs after he commissioned. 3 of those AFROTC friends were in his wedding. These guys flew in from across the country. 3 other friends attended as guests (female---so not in the wedding party). FFWD to now. Many of them are now moving to their next duty station. They will drive out of their way during the PCS if plausible to visit each other. My DS lives 2 1/2 hrs away from Dallas. He, his wife and baby girl are known to get in the car for the 5 hr round trip just to meet for a long lunch.
Personally I am with others, don't go into debt if you can avoid it. You are 18 now, and the idea that in 6 yrs from now you will be married is probably the farthest thing from your mind. My DS got married 1 day shy of 2yrs commissioned. Ripe old age of 24. He had no college debt. DS knew at commissioning he would marry this girl. During those 2 yrs. he was in TX (pilot training), she was in NC. He paid for her to fly out to visit him @ every 6 weeks for a few days, while at the same time saving to purchase a ring. Having no student loans allowed him this financial freedom.
~ She on the other hand had 70K in student debt. They moved 2x within their 1st yr of marriage. This meant it was hard for her to find a job in her career field. Few employers will hire someone if the employee is honest and says, yeah...my husband is ADAF and we know for a fact we are moving in 5 months. However, those student loans will be showing up in your mailbox every month whether or not she is employed. Just like now 2 car pmts., larger car ins. bill, 2 cell phone bills, food for 2, etc.
~~ Point being that 35K student loan debt right now might seem nominal, but what about in yrs to come when you fall in love and she has that debt too? Our DS and DIL had a baby 3 yrs after getting married. She is a stay at home wife/Mom. They are able to do this impo bc in part since he had no debt, he could pay off her loan faster.
Just saying think long term.